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This is my memoir for today, it is a bit long so move on if you don't feel like reading.
If u don't like something change it, if you can't change it change the way u think about it. I don't remember w...This is my memoir for today, it is a bit long so move on if you don't feel like reading.
If u don't like something change it, if you can't change it change the way u think about it. I don't remember where I first heard this statement, but it's amazing, it's about taking responsibility of your own personal power and adjusting your attitude to reflect joy and to choose to stop being pushed around by the external world around you. I love it! but how to change your opinions it can be tough. I have this deck of cards by Roger von Oech called the creative whack pack. This deck is a collections of really cool creative ideas to get you out of a creative block or to think about your project or situation in a different way they are soo cool! So today I had an idea that I would look in these cards for a creative way to improve and change the way I think about other people's opinions and desires. I have been really sick of acting like a victim when it comes to how other people affect me, thinking I need to please everyone else so people will like me. I wanted to take back my own personal power but still remain respectful to others boundaries, cause it's easy to do the other extreme and just stop giving an F about other people all together. If you try to be in a relationship being like that is only asking for an imbalance.
So I shuffled the cards and picked one. It was number 52 "Fight for it" I laughed. This was exactly what I'd been doing that I wanted to get away from. The card read:
Much of the world has its defenses up to keep out new ideas. Thus, you need to become a warrior and do what's necessary to make your idea a reality. Sometimes, this means fighting your way past obstacles you encounter. As Yoda the Jedi Warrior put it, "Try? There is no try. There is only do or do not." What resistance do you expect? How can you overcome it?
The first thing I thought was resistance? do I expect resistance? So I thought in some cases I guess I do expect resistance by expecting that others won't take me seriously or just plain out wont respect my boundaries. That's it I expect a fight. To fight for my boundaries, that's what my ego is for anyway right? Well if am to change this I need to look at resistance, This little game of resistance and needing to protect my emotions is a tool of my ego, it wants to fight. But I sure am sick of it. So why expect to stand up for myself anymore that's were I can change my attitude. All I need to do is realize that I don't need others to approve or believe me it is there business what they think of me and if they want something of me I don't need to feel obligated unless I choose to. When others want to fight with me I can recognize that it is there ego doing the fighting because of an issue in them and it is not for me to reflect back to them there pain or hurt. It is a good tool though to look at what I react to for that is a message from myself to look at any old wounds that need mending and to take responsibility of my pain and hurt for that is all that is reflected when someone "hurts your feelings it's not them per sa' it's my pain being brought to light. That is a beautiful gift from the ones that rub us the wrong way sometimes they show us where we need fixin. I love creativity it is not just for the artistic!
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